Hmm...this seems like a moaning article of privilege rather than providing guidance on the situation . You seem to highlight a sense of self-pity rather than reflecting on your own person actions. You are not this victim because the cleaning lady (which to me seems quite derogatory) ghosted you. Besides, I'm confused as to why you can't do this yourself? Everybody has their own version of hell right now and believe me there are worst people in this situation!